honestly list your coping skills
now split them into healthy or not
allow the unwholesome
to fade into oblivion
nurture the healthy ones
find more to lessen confusion
we have a core of goodness
with infallible resilience
for when times get tough
ignore the hurtful stuff
you are more than enough
install healthier inner talk
deal with the painful
check it closely
know it’s not you
watch it fade then drift away
don’t give it any more power
each is beautiful as we are
don’t let doubts linger
for you are a true star
Broadwater Beach NP where we did a lovely walk today firstly among the wildflowers in the hind dunes and then along the beach
The first line felt like a powerful guideline – honestly list your coping skills, split them into healthy or not!
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appreciate this so much Kate. list coping skills and scrutinize them, a good way to stop bad recurring habits that we might have thought helpful. well written dear.
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thanks so much Gina … when I saw your host of posts I was rather overwhelmed, sorry! I will pull up my big pants and venture there to bathe in your bounty of poetry 🙂
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Hi Kate. My WP site crashed and I lost some posts. I think my email had a breach. Anyways was so thankful I could repost the ones I managed to retrieve. I am sorry if the glut of posts overwhelmed you, it would have been for me too I suppose! hugs and much love for your care and patience with me.
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I look forward to seeing where your poetic journey will take me.
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Excellent! Great advice in a lovely poem.
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Your beautiful poeme, Kate, looks like the Beatitudes .
Love ❤
Michel
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Thank you so much Kate for your guiding and motivating all of us to stay on course. Lovely picture of such a lovely beach and ocean.
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What a wonderful sky! (K)
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You’re a star Kate 🙂
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Your words have a way of reaching us! Don’t stop using them!
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Love this! 🙌🏾
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I copied this one Kate … now pinned on my cork-board …
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That’s beautiful and so encouraging, Kate. It’s not always easy though.
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Beautifully written👌🏻
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A good guide to living well! I especially think we are all too able to point out our flaws but ask a person to list their talents or things they like about themselves and the list is small….
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I just had to print this out and hang it on our fridge door for reminder…just beautiful kate
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Beautifully expressed, Kate! ❤ Wise words to remember!
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AH! Right on! Brava! SIGH 🙂
The pair…your photo and your poem…healing, uplifting, wisdom, encouragement, helpful…etc! 🙂 Both are stars… ⭐️ ⭐️ As are you, SweetKate! ⭐️
(((HUGS))) 🙂
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Hmmm ….. sometimes I think we overdo this stuff – constantly analysing ourselves and manipulating ourselves like a machine – meticulously adjusting the dials rather than just giving them a random twist. So I propose an alternative (though not very alternative) view, with the working title, ‘Celebrate’.
No map to follow
No direction
Celebrate
Your imperfection
Don’t separate
The good from bad
Embrace what’s happy
Enfold what’s sad
No need to cope
No need to hide
Life is life
Enjoy the ride
You won’t be judged
There is no score
And once it’s gone
There is no more
Hear the music
What’s that song?
No matter
You just sing along
You’re never right
You’re never wrong
Your weakness is
What makes you strong
Do what you like
Do what you do
Celebrate
Each part of you
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Know your faults and disown them ?
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Positive self-talk is so very important. We can be the hardest on ourselves…:)
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We have to stop judging ourselves harshly! Beautifully said. 🙂
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That’s beautiful, Kate: just what I need to hear sometimes!
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Love this poem of self-affirmation.
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