True love has absolutely nothing to do with ownership or control
it is about pure care that one get all they wish
true love has nothing to do with games or manipulation
it’s about genuine acceptance of all that we are
true love is not about blackmail, bribing or moulding
it’s about support without conditions or strings
true love is being wholly accepted
with absolutely nothing expected
true love is mutual healing
sheer bliss with real feeling
true love puts us at completely at ease
never afraid sad or in the freeze
true love nourishes us to bloom
without put downs or grim gloom
if no kindness in their heart for us
step away quickly with no fuss
it is indeed rare
so we must share
for we each deserve true love
it comes from within not above
My grandpa did little else than talk about how wonderful his wife, my grandma, on his death bed. Even when his mind went almost completely, he chattered on about her in a hazy delirium. They had a strong bond. I also love my grandma. I spend time with her each week. I think grandpa would be happy. She’s been so good to people throughout her life that she still has friends come to visit. Many of the other old people are abandoned.
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yes sounds like they had true caring kindness in their hearts and this attracts others to them. I had a great aunt who everyone loved to visit because she was interested in them!
What a great connection for you to still have her there 🙂
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“Love is patient, love is kind” really rings true, love is all about understanding, grace, and boundaries without being unkind. We try to practice this in our marriage daily and I can say it makes an impact on not just us but the whole world around us.
Great post ❤
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Some fear that true love will not appear,
Practice giving and the getting will follow 🙂
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So true about true love!
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You write so beautifully about love, which is so little among people. I would like this feeling to be more towards others, children and the elderly.
best regards
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Love me. Love me. Love me do.
I’ll love you back. I’ll love you true
By spending every night with you
I’ll love you in the morning too
I’ll treat you special. Treat you nice
At other girls I won’t look twice
I’ll take you shopping. Pay the price.
For you will be my only vice.
Other boys will gawk and stare
I won’t be jealous. I won’t care
I will be with you everywhere
Even in your underwear.
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[…] Kate writes very sweetly, and all about the purity of true love. So I grab the moral high ground and then desecrate it. […]
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You have captured true love perfectly! ❤ We must love everyone we love with true love! Put out there, what we would like in return. 🙂
Other-forms-of-love that people talk about or "show", are usually with strings attached, and are not true love.
Beautiful poem and message, Kate! After reading it, I smiled and sighed. 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
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thanks Carolyn this was inspired by reading about young abused girls who grew up with the definition of love as “control and ownership” … they didn’t know it could be any different so I had to broadcast the message but guessing those girls don’t usually blog 😦
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As is typical of you, Kate, dreamt in beauty, and crafted with the skill needed to let it sparkle.
How faithful your thoughts. After all, one loves despite, not because.
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exactly my point Keith, well spotted!
Warts and all = true love ❤
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Just love, pure love. Thanks for sharing.
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Agape Love … self=giving love ! Well done!
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Nothing to add to all the comments – they’ve said it all!
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I enjoyed indulging in all your lines about true love. So beautiful and so true, that is exactly how true love is!
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I like your beautiful poem ,Kate , because without love we are nothing .
Love ❤
Michel
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Kate you have captured True Love so beautifully, nothing else is required. Loved your poem.
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Terrific! And what a clincher of an ending 🙂
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thanks for noticing … I thought people had missed it 🙂
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Well said… I think many of us struggle with understanding it.
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so true Si, so we need to keep reminding ourselves and each other … anything else is a compromise and not good enough 🙂
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You nailed it with this poem, Kate!
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You have portrayed true love so beautifully!! ❤️
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Control is the antithesis of love, and yet the world is still to learn this very fact, well said Kate (as always). 🙂
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thanks Paul, that was a marathon read … really appreciate you dropping over as time allows 🙂
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Yes, work has been a tad busy this year, so I have to catch up some weeks. Not helped by the fact that some posts are in my notifications while others are only in the reader. So I sometimes do it manually.
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hey but you’re still churning out masterpieces 🙂
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I must frame your comments 😀
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please do!
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Love is all about trust… the rest you mention is the opposite. This made me think of this song by Sting
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INDEED!!!
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