Today was super busy preparing for my relocation. Bureaucratic details, big items purchased and best of all my volunteer work!
We had a picnic by the beach at Broken Head and just before lunch I took a few of the Elders for a paddle along the beach. Returning to join the others we met a most interesting man, a chef from my favourite café.
He had survived a shark attack where it had bitten a chunk out of the left side of his torso. Starting from his shoulder then leaving a tooth in his buttock. He wanted to know more about my cancer journey [double mastectomy is obvious], so thoughtful. And he had a habit of punctuating the conversation with “happy life” . He was just returning from his surf, so it didn’t deter him off! But he did add that he ensures ‘flake’ is always on his menu … ‘flake’ is our term for shark steak. [Several pounds of flesh for several pounds of flesh …]
Then he added an invite to his café and we joyfully told him that we had had our Christmas function there. But when I return I will make a point of connecting with him again.
We do meet so many interesting people in our lives. Only a few of them manages to leave an impression and a desire to reconnect
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yes he was so totally engaged with the Elders, most just stare …
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this is the first i have read about your personal battle, you are brave Kate, i could feel it but never knew this brave. i hope you get to connect with this chef again, he sounds fun and interesting.
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What a beautiful share, that shows that even when faced with difficulties in our lives we can choose to do our best and live life to the fullest. Thank you for sharing Kate.😊❤️
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How do you chance upon these interesting people!
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The title scares me…ohhh i thout twas you…but anyhow, surviving a shark attack is really something..
And goodluck on your relocation kate
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Such wonderful connections that make a happy life!
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Happy Life! Love this! 🙂
He sounds like an amazing person! 🙂
It’s people like him, and YOU, that make me glad I’m not just a survivor…but, I’m a thrive-r (like you 2), too! 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
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Your stark title caught my eye, what an amazing story (!) and your story as well (hello, fellow cancer survivor!), I missed reading about your relocation, I hope it’s quieter for you and just as beautiful…
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So the chef with the shark’s tooth in his rear has a ‘standing’ invitation to connect with you again. Good thinking!
P.S. Ditto the previous happy relocation wishes. 🙂
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they extracted the tooth … wonder if they needed a dentist for that 😉
He was talking to five of us …. thanks for the well wishes!
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Both your perspectives are more about happy life in a real way, those I know who have faced the possibility of death never give up on life or others. Inspiring piece Kate. ❤️
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survival certainly helps release the optimism and gratitude more naturally 🙂
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Happy Life! What a great greeting for all off us to start using 🙂💕 I love this story Kate.
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Some scars are more visible. Some not so obvious.
Lovely looking beach. Are the sharks always about or are they seasonal.
When I was in Maui many years ago the sharks were ‘seasonal’ but also respected.
Connections are always good 🙂
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No sharks are in our oceans all year round and we do have spotter planes up … have heard them sound sirens and the surfers didn’t budge … if you play in the ocean you know the risk!
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Hi Kate!
Hope relocation is going well. And thanks for bringing a smile upon my face by this post. Have a nice day 🙂
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You meet nice people on your way.
Best wishes
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I wonder what the sharks call human flesh. Another one had a taste down your way today.
I hope both you and the chef have happy lives and that your relocation goes/went well.
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yes that’s what started the conversation … seems three other local attacks survivors were all teachers … he is the exception being a chef! Interesting correlation. so please be careful
Wednesday thanks Norah … happy life to you also 🙂
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I guess that says that no matter how many sharks they encounter, teachers are survivors!
Happy relocation tomorrow! 🙂
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What a great story Kate, life’s hard realities definitely help us appreciate the life we are living now.
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